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GRANGER, Ind. — Becky Savage always starts her talks to students and parents the same way. She shows them pictures of her teenage sons, Nick and Jack, who loved hockey, Taco Bell, and late-night hangouts.

Then, she tells them what happened on June 14, 2015.

Savage was picking up dirty clothes from 18-year-old Jack’s room that Sunday morning. He was sleeping in after a night of graduation parties with Nick and other friends. Jack didn’t respond as she picked up his laundry. She shook him, but he didn’t wake up. She knew to check his pulse — she’s a nurse. He didn’t have one. She started CPR on her son and shouted for help.


She heard sirens wail down their street. She watched a firefighter try to resuscitate Jack. She screamed at him when she saw him give up.

Then Savage realized more first responders were rushing into her basement. A second 911 call had been made from her house at the same time — this one by friends of 19-year-old Nick, who had just finished his freshman year at Indiana University. They’d all spent the night in the basement, and now Nick wasn’t waking up.

A paramedic came upstairs and asked for a coroner.


“That was truly the last thing I could remember,” said Savage.

Nick and Jack Savage both died of an accidental overdose of oxycodone and alcohol. The next month, two teenagers were charged with providing the pills and drinks that killed them. Savage felt the bottom drop out of her life.

She has since made it her mission to talk about the dangers of opioid abuse to anyone who will listen. She talks at school rallies and parent meetings, and to strangers who approach her while she’s out to dinner.

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A photo of Becky Savage’s son Nick is seen in her home. Kristen Norman for STAT

She feels an urgency to tell her story widely: Her sons were two of the 4,235 young adults between ages 15 and 24 who died of drug overdoses in the U.S. in 2015. Drug overdoses among that age group have nearly tripled since 2000.

It’s a crisis that knows no boundaries: Across all age groups, there were more than 52,000 drug overdose deaths in the U.S. in 2015.

Last year, Savage started the 525 Foundation — she named it after Nick and Jack’s hockey numbers, 5 and 25 — to further her advocacy work.

“I constantly told my kids, ‘Don’t do drugs. Don’t drink,’” she said. “I never talked to them about prescription drugs.”

Savage keeps talking because she believes her story — the pain she calls “this big black abyss” — has the power to cut deeper than the lectures and the statistics kids hear in school.

President Trump suggested last week that teens could be dissuaded from trying drugs if adults would just tell them that opioids are “really bad for you in every way.” Attorney General Jeff Sessions has talked about reviving D.A.R.E., the anti-drug program that sent uniformed police officers into classrooms around the country starting in the ’80s to preach about the dangers of narcotics.

But the grief of a mother who lost two sons in one night carries a different kind of weight.

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Justin, Nick, Matthew, and Jack Savage (from left) with their parents, Becky and Mike Savage, in Siesta Key, Fla., where the family regularly vacationed. Courtesy
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Mike, Matthew, Becky, and Justin Savage on a family vacation in 2016. Becky Savage shows the two photos in her presentations to illustrate her family’s loss. Courtesy

“The first year after, you can’t feel. You can’t even put thoughts together,” she said. “It’s not just someone going up there showing statistics. I show that this is real.”

Her work has become all the more relevant in this part of Northwest Indiana, where the community is coming to terms with the scope of the opioid crisis after the murder of Dr. Todd Graham last month. Graham was shot and killed by a patient’s husband after refusing to prescribe opioids for her chronic pain. The tragedy has forced doctors, law enforcement, and local residents to come together and figure out how to move forward.

“This isn’t ‘Just say no.’ That doesn’t work enough,” said St. Joseph County Prosecutor Ken Cotter, who oversees criminal cases in the area.

Since the murder, Savage has been an active part of the conversation about what comes next. She’s participated in a community-wide meeting on the crisis. She plans to organize a pill drop to get rid of unused prescriptions, and has a full slate of school speeches coming up this fall.

She sees her role as unique: Law enforcement tries to stop illicit sales. Counselors try to break addictions. Her goal is to prevent teens from trying opioids that first time. “I’m just putting out little fires, one at a time,” she said.

When she talks to students, Savage drives home the point that just because painkillers swiped from a family medicine cabinet might have been prescribed by a doctor doesn’t mean they’re safe.

“I tell kids they’re not pharmacists. They don’t know what’s in those. How would they know? They haven’t gone to medical school,” she said.

Parents’ eyes grow big when they hear her story. Savage is unnervingly relatable — if it could happen to her kids, it could happen to theirs, too. The room is dead silent when she stops speaking. She knows there are questions brewing. Once the first timid hand pops up, a dozen more follow.

Her message to parents is twofold: Tell your kids over and over not to take opioids. “Get in their faces,” she said.

And get rid of any unused prescriptions.

A review published this month in JAMA Surgery found that 90 percent of patients who were prescribed opioids after surgery didn’t properly dispose of their leftover medicines. That leaves a whole lot of pills in medicine cabinets, all too accessible to curious teens.

Savage recently organized a pill drop, where local officials collected hundreds of pounds of prescription medications. Her youngest son came along — he asks to come to many of her events — and was shocked by the boxes teeming with unused prescriptions.

“He said, ‘Mom, just think, one of those pills could kill somebody,’” she said.

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Becky Savage holds a photo of her sons Jack and Nick. Kristen Norman for STAT

She knows that all too well.

She lost Jack’s crooked smile and abundant kindness. The morning after he died, a young man knocked on their door holding a card and a big, beautiful bouquet of flowers. He had driven all night to see the Savage family. He and Jack had gone to middle school together, he told them, but he’d since moved away. Jack had sat with him on the bus when no one else would.

She lost Nick’s quiet approachability and his sharp mind for science. He was studying microbiology and chemistry in college. One weekend during his freshman year, Nick hitched a ride back to Granger with a friend. He didn’t tell his mom, because he wanted to see the look in her eyes when he surprised her. It was snowing when he came in through the back door and his family bombarded him with hugs.

Savage said she always knew her sons would do great things. She’s had to pick up the torch.

“Nick and Jack are living on through this,” she said. “I don’t want their story to end the way it did.”

  • We have gun safes. Let’s get medicine safes. Its a start for a solution. I have an adult daughter who has chrons, a liver disease, and no large intestine. She needs pain meds she can hardly get. After repeatedly going to ER this year she was finally granted the pain meds she needs. A safe for her meds is a solution to keep them out of the hands of her young daughter. Lets talk ideas!

  • Terrible loss of life .
    However, this so called crisis will become a bigger crisis due to the fact that this medicine has helped many chronic pain users endure the day with a little less pain.
    The supposed epidemic will be another crisis of some sort since so many people need this medicine and it can only be found in the hands of someone who obtains it with the intention of selling it illegally

  • I’m sorry for this woman’s grief, but these boys, while dying from a straight-up abuse of medication combined with alcohol, are added into statistics that harm legitimate chronic pain patients who responsibly take their prescriptions as per doctor’s orders. Recent publication from two CDC physicians admitted to the hyped up number of victims in the opiod epidemic whose deaths can actually be attributed to their prescription pain opiod. Over half the deaths are strictly from street drugs, and the remainder are from a combination of medications or medications plus alcohol, where autopsy didn’t or couldn’t determine which substance was responsible.

  • There are no words. But I am in the addiction know unfortunately. I have two sons battling for the last 13 years to an opiate addiction. They struggle everyday. One has just gotten out of tratment for the 15th time and he is in sober living. The other one is surviving but smoking dope everyday. It is a life of pure HELL for the addict and the loved ones. I could write a novel on what we have been through and it is not over yet. No one wants to be an addict. How smart was it to release such an adding drug that has stolen so many lives. The person that talked about junkies belong in the dirt needs to get educated on the subject. There is a lot of ignorance about opiate addiction

  • Be patient with me as I am writing at the visceral level. I was horrified when I first read the article dealing these deaths. My wife (now deceased) and I lived at least three years of constant hell. My wife told me something was wrong with our son. I didn’t. It took a baptism by fire to shake my life. I’ll be brief here. My son was married and live quite a few miles from us. ONE DAY he came home. The first thing that came out of my mouth “good lord what is wrong with you?” “I’m just very tired.” I told him to go our guest bedroom and lie down. Two or three minutes passed and the hint of a thought passed through my mind….hmm…something is not quite wrong. I went to our guest bedroom only to find the limp, no evidence of breathing, blue body of my son. I yelled to my wife to call 911. I immediately began cpr. I do not know how much time had past before the emt’s appeard. At any rate my cpr did prompt my son to begin breathing, etc, etc. I cannot even begin sympathizing much less empathizing with this mother. I vehemently disagree with the person who posted the comment that the people who use drugs in a illicit way are “junkies in the dirt.” My wife and my self gave our son unconditional love, in the best of times and the worst of times. Love is sometimes expressed with anger. That’s normal. Thank God, our son is now alive and well, married and waiting on the birth of a girl. Love prevails!!

  • We need to get together and spread the word that Satan is alive and well, and his job is to steal, kill, and to destroy. Steal your kids from you, their thoughts and minds, kill the truths that was taught to them, and then to destroy them and you, let them die so their parents can be destroyed and give up. But he doesn’t know what he has done, he woke us up, took our heads out of the sand, and we are no longer sleeping, but determined to fight for the living souls of children, and grandchildren. We will not bow to his plan but will bow to Jesus and ask for His help to get us all out of this mess.

    • Exactly. This is tragic, but too many times the alcohol part is left out of the conversation. The booze is equally responsible here if not more. I’m willing to bet these poor kids drank first, then took the pills.

    • Terrible loss of life .
      However, this so called crisis will become a bigger crisis due to the fact that this medicine has helped many chronic pain users endure the day with a little less pain.
      The supposed epidemic will be another crisis of some sort since so many people need this medicine and it can only be found in the hands of someone who obtains it with the intention of selling it illegally

  • what good is it to make people in chronic live a sub life because the junkies have a drug problem when in fact they have problem with the very people who were to raise them do not care or to busy then they pity they get for their sorrow I see a corolation the deaths are caused by people that chase their dream an failure to keep said loved ones off drugs you all failed see it correct it any whay junkies belong in the dirt

  • My son Cole died 6 days ago from an apparent accidental overdose. The pills aren’t coming from leftover prescriptions, Cole told me dealers have gallon size ziplock bags full and if you can’t find pills, heroin is everywhere. He started taking pills after surgery in high school, went to rehab several times and tried treatment with Suboxone. We are devastated and know each day someone else’s child will die. What is it going to take to stop this epidemic?

    • So very sorry for your loss! Suboxone is even more addictive than any opioid. It makes me sick that these so called addiction clinics are even making it harder for addicts to get off of opioids. They are just trading one drug for one that is so much worse.

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